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Break Up With Your Online Date

There’s not much difference with online dating and dating someone you met offline. There usually comes a time when you have to break up with your date. Whether you do the breaking up or they do, it’s never easy. Part of the problem with online dating is that you know that there is always another date out there and within easy reach. In fact, most online daters are in contact with more than one person at a time so it’s quite easy to decide to break up with someone knowing you have other options.

Once you discover that your relationship with your online date isn’t going anywhere, you need to break up with them. There is no point in dragging it on. If you are on a first date and you know it’s not going to work then you should be honest and tell them that is the case. Don’t give them the impression that you want to see them again. Although this may seem a harsh thing to do, it will only be worse if you carry on seeing them and they develop feelings for you or get there hopes up. That could lead to real disappointment, hurt, and anger.

When you do break up with your date, be honest but not mean. Don’t tell them what you think is wrong with them rather put the focus on yourself. Tell them you don’t feel as though there is any connection. Thank them for the date and their time but make it clear that you won’t be calling or emailing them again. This way you both know where you stand and the other party won’t be waiting by the phone, or computer, to hear from you.

Some people think if the date doesn’t work out then there may be a chance for friendship, but be honest, most people who are dating online are looking for a relationship, either a long term or a short term relationship, but less often for friendship. What are you looking for? What are they looking for? If you are looking for romance then forget about the idea of friendship. It generally doesn’t work.

Don’t break up in a public place. You don’t want people to be able to overhear your conversation and you surely don’t want to embarrass your date. Have a quiet word with them, gently explaining your reasons and let them have their say. Get everything out in the open and your break up should go smoothly.

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